Class 11/15 - Gift Giving (Haley Conroy)
On this day of class we explored two major ideas: gift giving and reciprocity. Dr. Redick acknowledged how a gift is only a gift if the giver does not feel obligated to do so or if they expecting something in return. We discussed the market economy exchange and how reciprocity is a big idea in society about how one should act in relation to societies standards. In my own expierence, I would certainly say I enjoy giving gifts to people, but it it is true that depending on who the person is that I am giving a gift to that I ocasionally expect something in return. This is depending on the size or quality of the gift as well. However, additionally in my own expierence the best gifts I have given to my love ones have felt the best to give if I wasn't expecting anything in return. Dr. Redick shared the story about hiking and how a woman invited him and his fellow hikers into her home and cooked them dinner and let them stay without expecting anything in return. When our fellow people in society show us that kind of hospitality and kindess, it can make all the difference in this world which can at times be cruel and ungiving. By giving and not expecting anything in return, the world will be a better place. When we give to others, it feels good and it is certainly a good action to take in your life. I believe when you do good, you will recieve good. As we are entering the 'season of giving' so to speak with Thanksgiving and Christmas right around the corner, I will aim to be mindful and more giving and also more appreciative of what I do recieve from my loved ones. Simply just having the opportunity to give to others is something that many people in today's world do not have so don't take advantage of your ability. It can leave a lasting and positive impact in the world and one small act of kindness or giving can create a ripple effect in my opinion!
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